Today real connection, authentic interaction and reciprocal collaboration is a key ingredient for happy people, successful teams and great organisations. These are deeply longed for by people across all walks of life but they do not know how to create or receive it.
In business today leaders are in search of a fresh understanding of themselves. Many of them are looking for a compelling purpose to give true meaning to what they do. They long to take an honest look at what no longer works in their life, attitude, style or approach. To experience this growth and transformation they need the safety of like-minded individuals. In Coaching Circles participants develop new self-insights, courage to make different choices resulting in new attitudes and behaviours which improves their relationships with themselves and others.
Why do teams, working groups and organisations fail?
Teams, Working Groups and Organisations seldom fail because they lack the skills, knowledge or experience; they generally have this in good supply. They fail mostly because of the stubbornness of successful, intelligent and strong willed individuals. These individuals are often not prepared to make the behavioural and attitudinal adjustment to accommodate their colleagues or team members. Ego, past success, competitiveness, fear of failure, power, prestige and status all make it very difficult for individuals to collaborate for the greater good.
This culture of rugged individualism might have brought the individual great personal success in the past. However, in an interdependent and cross-functional environment, success is leveraged off the currency of co-operation, collaboration and the mobilising of minds towards new innovations. Rugged individualism then becomes a stumbling block in the path of the larger objective of organisational effectiveness and competitiveness.
How does one build, nurture or sustain this kind of collaborative approach? It requires that professionals, team members, specialists, cross-functional/ departmental team members etc. collectively subscribe to demonstrating the following qualities namely:
- Constructive Conflict Engagement
- Steadfast Commitment to group/team decisions
- Taking personal accountability
- Holding each other accountable, and
- Being collectively results orientated.
Workings of a coaching circle
- Members are clear about Why the coaching circle exists.
- They focus on clearly articulated:
- Personal developmental goals
- Team or personal performance objectives
- Organisational opportunities, challenges or issues.
- They meet regularly at a fixed time and day.
- They create group safety by agreeing to a set of “ground rules”.
- They bind themselves to a collective commitment via a team contract.
- Maximum no of members in the coaching circle is 6-8.
Temporary External support
Their journey is supported by an external, skilled and credible facilitator.
- The facilitator teaches the team the coaching circle process.
- Walks with the team for a predetermined period until the team is confident, willing and capable to continue, without the help of the external facilitator.